Once you have found a mentee to pass on your experience and wisdom to, it’s important to establish some key qualities and mentoring behaviours so that you can also have a fulfilling, enriching experience through sharing your knowledge.
Active Listening & Empathy
Always prioritise understanding the mentee’s situation before offering advice. Active listening is crucial, especially in high-stress or high-pressure situations–. Think about how you felt the first time you walked into a clinic and what helped you become the dentist you are today.
Honest & Constructive Feedback
Whether asked or not, provide specific, actionable insights rather than vague praise when offering feedback. Honest and constructive feedback is a lot more helpful than a simple platitude. Ask yourself: What did they do well? What could they have done better?
Reliability & Availability
Be available and accountable to your mentee so they can count on you in times of need. If you’ve given your mentee certain days or hours to contact you, it’s making sure that you show up or are always available during those times.
Authenticity
Make sure that you’re genuine to your mentee. Being genuine helps you build a foundation of trust, and is what allows for professional growth outside of technical teaching.
Set Clear Expectations
Define goals and boundaries at the start of the mentoring relationship so that you both know what to expect out of each other. This includes meeting times, whether clinical support will be provided, what type of mentor you want to be and what type of mentoring your mentee requires. Sometimes you may find that the match isn’t right, for example the mentee may need a more hands on approach and you simply don’t have the time. This isn’t anyones fault. Be honest early so that you can both find a better fit.
Foster Independence
You should always be helping your mentee develop their own solutions rather than just giving answers. This will empower your mentee to become self-reliant and build their confidence to make them a better clinician in the future. After all, the goal of mentorship is to help your mentee maintain long-term autonomy.
Provide Encouragement
Support your mentee through challenges and view any of the mistakes they make as learning opportunities instead of issues that require correction. Allowing your mentee to learn from mistakes, rather than simply shielding them, will help them in their future professional career.
Share Knowledge & Network
If you want to foster a supportive community, then sharing your expertise and helping your mentees connect with new opportunities in crucial – especially in an industry as isolated as dentistry. We all know the risk of burnout as dental professionals, so helping them build their professional community is essential and has the additional benefit of accelerating their development.
Model Professionalism
By living up to the advice you give, you set a clear example and help shape the mentee’s ethical and professional standards as a future clinician. How do you respond to patients when they have questions? How do you treat other clinic staff day-to-day? Are you engaged as a clinician or do you keep to yourself?